Ain’t we all been there when we’ve met that awesome guy 

a sense of humour and sparkly eyes, he had you from the word “Hi” 

Then you get those tummy feelings and you wonder if he gets them too

But if he’s holding back 

Love, I have news for you

He’s just not into you

Girl, it’s not a joke

Take a moment to breath

Before your sweet heart gets broke

It’s not who you are

Or ‘cause of anything you’ve done

And there’s someone that’s out there

But this guy’s not the one

Feelings come real fast and throw your mind off track

The hardest part is just ‘cause you like him doesn’t mean he’s gonna like you back

Just because you met his eye across the crowded room

It doesn’t mean you’ve met true love

I think you must assume 

He’s just not into you

Girl, it’s not a joke

Take a moment to breath

Before your sweet heart gets broke

It’s not who you are

Or ‘cause of anything you’ve done

And there’s someone that’s out there

But this guy’s not the one

It’s hard to know when you’re told your perfect

All alone doesn’t mean that you’re not worth it

God only knows the one that’s meant to be

So until he comes along, I want it to come from me

He’s just not into you

Girl, it’s not a joke

Take a moment to breath

Before your sweet heart gets broke

He’s just not into you

Girl, it’s not a joke

Take a moment to breath

Before your sweet heart gets broke 

And it’s not who you are

Or anything you’ve done

And there’s someone that’s out there

Oh yeah there’s someone that’s out there

But this guy’s not the one

Not the one

Not the one

Being romantically interested in someone who doesn’t feel the same way seems like a right of passage when growing up. 

He’s Just Not Into You explores the idea that someone can be disinterested in you - and it’s okay. 

This song lovingly tells the often painful truth - it’s not who you are, or anything you’ve done. And there’s someone that’s out there… but this guys not the one! 

“I have had many beautiful friends of mine smitten with a guy who is lovely - and totally disinterested in them. We like to tell our young people that they are ‘perfect just the way they are’. And then, when someone's not interested in us, it catches us off guard, and we can easily wonder what we did wrong. 

I wrote this song as an antidote to say that you can be a beautiful person, and he can still not be interested in you. 

There's nothing wrong with that, your worth isn’t tied up in someone else’s feelings about you. And hang tight, the right person is out there somewhere!”